In reading Bell Hook’s piece “Memories of my Girlhood” I was
immediately taken back to my childhood and the memories I have of playing with
my dolls, all of which happened to be white. I don’t believe my parents chose
purposely to only buy white dolls over black dolls, I just think that my
parents never even thought that buying an ethnic looking doll would maybe be a
good idea to help teach their child that all babies, and people, are different.
Our society’s history isn’t a pretty one, and because of the racist notions
instilled by our ancestors, many people are simply ignorant to the subject
altogether. Aside from racism, however, there is also a good amount of sexism
embedded in children’s’ play as well. For centuries little girls have been
given dolls and tea sets to play with while little boys are given trucks and
action figures, but why? Don’t these little boys have the potential to grow up
and be fathers? Why does the concept of learning how to take care of a baby
fall to females while boys that may play with a baby doll tend to be looked
down upon? I must admit that times have changed over the most recent decades
and there is more versatility within toy options, and more parents are
encouraging their children to play with whatever they want (within reason)
instead of instilling gender roles at an early age. I also recently saw that
the creators of Barbie starting making dolls that have more reasonable and
realistic size proportions. Maybe if companies continue on this path then the
different “isms” can begin to be eliminated in children’s’ lives, where they don't belong anyway.
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